....to live your dreams means doing so to satisfy yourself, and not hurt anyone else in the process. what happens then, if the dream you want to live, will end up hurting someone else? do you sacrifice? do you deny? do you reject it? or do you close your eyes and do it anyway, because its something that you need, and for nearly 50 years you have put such things on the back burner.... waiting for the right time, the right person, the right thing to do..... yet life is passing by and won't wait . so whatya do? it's a catch 22, it 'tis...... i don't know the answer but i'm living out the question.