tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36966379.post4648399360713232580..comments2023-05-12T03:47:22.603-05:00Comments on nO drAmA fOr dA mAmA.: Chttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09910078888984045131noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36966379.post-67083967221329046462012-02-14T16:01:02.581-06:002012-02-14T16:01:02.581-06:00thank you everyone. you are helping me pull throug...thank you everyone. you are helping me pull through...Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09910078888984045131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36966379.post-19314968491990222102012-02-13T18:14:07.292-06:002012-02-13T18:14:07.292-06:00One more thing: I look forward to the day when SHE...One more thing: I look forward to the day when SHE calls YOU and not vice versa...and you are sorry, but too busy to talk. <br /><br />And for god sakes...DO NOT SLIP back. It will be hard not to, because I strongly suspect that she will eventually find that she wants a doormat again. And if she can't get it from her Ex (and frankly, there is a reason that the ex is the ex...and now that the sneaking around part is over, I suspect that a lot of the passion will abate too), she will look to you. <br /><br />Stay calm. Let yourself be angry but not in a destructive way, and then...find ways to laugh in your life and that will be your door away..and out.Mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05049511202014141182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36966379.post-50321981761675899812012-02-13T18:10:02.818-06:002012-02-13T18:10:02.818-06:00I can deal with the idea that she fell out of love...I can deal with the idea that she fell out of love with you and didn't wish to hurt you, wanted to spare your feelings..<br /><br />But, the making fun of you with the Ex is inexcusable. That is just not done, it is bottom scum behavior. <br /><br />Anger is good right now, believe it or not. I was getting worried that you were going to stay in pain mode forever and that is no way to heal. Anger jettisons you away from the relationship and it actually healthy. It is RIGHT to be angry when someone you love hurts you. To be honest, I think you were allowing yourself to be a doormat for a very long time and that was not helping you and just giving her license to justify her actions. <br /><br />Anger is good. Hold on to it and suck on it for a while. Then, one day it will begin to dissipate and that is when the best part comes: indifference.Mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05049511202014141182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36966379.post-84896428465571481502012-02-13T12:43:45.539-06:002012-02-13T12:43:45.539-06:00I think she should have talked to you. That is jus...I think she should have talked to you. That is just wrong!kristihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17987700142247888708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36966379.post-90868338058077971062012-02-13T12:27:10.183-06:002012-02-13T12:27:10.183-06:00Oh, C. My heart is aching for you. Just aching.
...Oh, C. My heart is aching for you. Just aching.<br />I can somewhat identify because although John swore that he loved me, his actions since we separated have said otherwise. I am now doubting that he ever really loved me. <br />I pray that you will find peace and the pain will end very soon. <br />xoxoxoCyndy Bushhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12617354883122757511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36966379.post-86975306522981620802012-02-13T12:16:14.821-06:002012-02-13T12:16:14.821-06:00When you said: "They are just excuses to try ...When you said: "They are just excuses to try to justify that which she never should have done to me." Boy did that ring a bell with me. The person who walks away will say things to make themselves feel better. That is the only way they can deal with the guilt. The sad part is all the we discover after the fact, the things we should have seen but didn't because love is blind. I am glad you are figuring so many of these things out so soon. Not that it makes your pain less but it will make the healing process come sooner. ((HUGS))Debby@Just Breathehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11685398064340027809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36966379.post-406390057297281512012-02-13T12:15:23.781-06:002012-02-13T12:15:23.781-06:00She needs to tell herself whatever she can so that...She needs to tell herself whatever she can so that she could look in the mirror day after day. If she really faced the truth of how disgusting her actions were, she wouldn't be able to live with herself. Awful. I'm sorry, C.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com